Intimacy
By LibertyBooksStore

Intimacy: A Field Guide to Finding Connection and Feeling Your Deep Desires is a thoughtful and practical guide to building healthier, more authentic relationships with yourself and others. Written by renowned intimacy coordinator Ita O'Brien, the book explores how genuine intimacy is created—not only through physical closeness, but also through trust, communication, emotional awareness, and mutual respect. Drawing on her groundbreaking work in film and television, where she has helped transform the way intimacy is portrayed on screen, O'Brien shares the principles she uses to create safe, respectful, and emotionally honest interactions between actors. She demonstrates how these same techniques can be applied in everyday life to strengthen relationships, deepen emotional connections, and foster healthier conversations about love, sex, boundaries, and desire. Through personal stories, behind-the-scenes experiences from productions such as Normal People, Sex Education, and I May Destroy You, along with practical exercises and reflective guidance, the book encourages readers to reconnect with their bodies, understand their needs, communicate openly, and approach intimacy with confidence and compassion. Rather than focusing solely on romantic or sexual relationships, Intimacy presents intimacy as a lifelong practice of creating meaningful human connection. It offers readers tools to navigate vulnerability, establish healthy boundaries, build trust, and cultivate relationships that are grounded in honesty, consent, and mutual care.